Mathew and Mary Coudy
Including Mathew's father John Coudy and Brothers Oliver, James, and John Coudy
Along with other Coudys
Compiled
By Great-Great-Grandson Edward K. Hine, Jr. ("Ted") - March, 2005
(Updated June 2007, July 2008, and March 2012)
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Mathew Coudy
Born: Abt. 1813 in
Ireland
Died: December 31, 1883 in St. Louis, Missouri
Cause of Death: Possible
Heart Attack
Age at Death: 70
Buried: Bellefontaine Cemetery, St. Louis, MO
(GPS N
38° 41.784’, W 090° 13.787’ ± 10 feet - WGS84 Datum)
Father:
John Coudy (1775-1823)
Mother:
Isabella (abt. 1780-1846)
Siblings:
John Coudy, Jr.
(abt. 1801 - ?)
James Coudy (abt. 1803-1883)
Oliver Coudy (abt. 1810 - abt 1848)
A Sister - name not known (? - ?)
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Mary
Margaret Caroline Seward-Coudy Born:
January 17, 1827 in Butler, Illinois
Died: October 26, 1923 in St. Louis, Missouri
Cause of Death: Unknown
Age at Death: 96
Buried: Bellefontaine Cemetery, St. Louis, MO
(GPS N
38° 41.784’, W 090° 13.787’ ± 10 feet - WGS84 Datum)
Father: Israel Seward
(1795-1869)
Mother: Margaret Slayback-Seward (1797-1877)
Siblings:
William A. Seward Clarence S. Seward
George C. Seward James G. Seward
Charles O. Seward Francis H. Seward
Henry S. Seward Cornelia L. Seward
Sarah M. Seward Edward W. Seward |
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Mary Caroline
Seward-Coudy at age 90 |
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Married:
September 25, 1848 in Butler,
Montgomery
County, Illinois
Children:
Agnes Mary Coudy-Eilers
(1849- 1933)
Emma Lily ("Lillie") Coudy
(died in childhood
around 1854)
James
("Jimmie") Coudy
(died in childhood
around 1855)
Cornelia
Coudy (1856-1857 in infancy)
Margaret Coudy-Corneli (1859-?)
Horace Resley Coudy (1862-1949)
Upton Seward Coudy (1865-1947)
Lee
Mathew Coudy (1868-?)
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Mathew Coudy
Not a lot is known about Mathew Coudy but what is known
about him and his brothers is
quite interesting. Note that I've come across his name spelled as both
Mathew and Matthew. Since his gravestone reads "Mathew" and hand written
instructions to Bellefontaine Cemetery (St. Louis) regarding the Coudy family
plot there were signed by him also using the spelling "Mathew", I assume
that this was his preferred spelling.
Until a few years ago when I was checking U.S. census
records for my great-grandfather, Horace R. Coudy, I didn't know the name of his
father. 1880 census records showed that Horace's father's name was
Mathew Coudy, that he lived in St. Louis, and that he was a "retired builder".
This was all I knew about my great-great grandfather
Mathew till I discovered several letters written to my
mother by her grandfather, Horace R. Coudy (son of Mathew), in the mid 1940's. These
letters are priceless and in them Horace talks about a number of his ancestors.
Regarding his father Mathew he wrote on April 19, 1946:
"My father's family came from So. France,
French Huguenots, and when they were expelled from France by the
Catholics, they all went to Belfast Ireland for a short time & then
to the US. They settled in Hancock Md. where my father
was born. His parents died and he was raised by
relatives till a young man. He and his brother Oliver
came west to see what they could do & went by river to Vicksburg
Miss. then north to Alton as boats did not land at St. Louis, to
small a town. They heard of an academy to be built in
Hillsboro (IL), "Wyman Academy" so they decided to try for the
contract, missed the stage coach which made two trips a week so they
walked. Only 40 miles, grass taller than heads.
Arrived in Hillsboro in due time then had to go on to my grandfather
Israel Seward who was in charge of building. Father
often told us when he went up to house, mother [Horace's], a young
girl of about 16 was a riding pal [Mathew's future wife].
Anyway they built the academy - (still standing, saw it in 1938).
Abe Lincoln always stopped at grandfather's on his way Springfield
to Vandalia which was then the capital of Ill. Mother
said he would drive up in a buckboard - dashboard cut out so his leg
could reach around the horse's neck. He'd jump out,
throw her up and catch her in his arms. Uncle Oliver
married a Hillsboro girl and passed away some years later in the
coach on his way from Springfield where he was a legislator from his
district. Later his widow married Judge Rice -
grandchildren still living in Hillsboro. Father and
mother married in 1848, moved to St. Louis. Bought half
a block of land, built a home, went into contracting business and
later built eight more houses. When I was 12 yrs father
retired. Passed away Dec. 31st 1883. I went
to send a telegram to Uncle James at Hancock, Md. and when I
returned mother had a telegram stating uncle James passed away at 1
p.m. Father at 12:00 noon - 1 hour apart.
Father 70 - uncle James 80." |
Mathew's Birth
Place
Horace clearly indicates that Mathew was
born in Hancock, MD however other information more convincingly indicates that
Mathew was in fact born in Ireland. Census records for Mathew as
head-of-household (1850, 1860, and 1880) consistently indicate that he was born
in Ireland while such records for Horace as head-of-household are inconsistent
about where his father was born with the 1900 census showing Illinois and the
1930 census showing Pennsylvania. Finally and most convincingly, the 1827
Maryland naturalization (citizenship) record for Mathew's brother James Coudy
indicates that the family arrived in this country from Ireland in 1817.
Mathew would have been about 4 years old at the time.
About Mathew's
Parents, Siblings, and the Family's Emigration to the United States
Horace's letter makes reference to the
fact that, after emigrating from Ireland, his father's family settled in
Hancock, MD which is located only a mile or two south of the Pennsylvania
border in Washington County, Maryland. As indicated above, James
Coudy's 1827 naturalization record (which indicates that he was born in County
Down, Ireland) shows that the family came to the U.S. in
1817. It also contains a note which reads "Was 13 years old when arrived
with his father and family. Went first to Dauphin Co., PA. Moved to
Washington Co. 7 years ago." This places James, and most likely all
of his family, in the Hancock area starting
about 1820 or more-or-less 3 years after they arrived from Ireland.
Recent research shows that Mathew's
father was John Coudy. There is an 1820 census record for the John Coudy family in Bethel, Bedford County,
Pennsylvania where John is shown as being a farmer. Bedford County, PA is
located only about 9 miles across the border from Hancock, MD (though "Bethel" is not shown
on any current maps). This is certainly the census record of
Mathew's father and his family due, in addition to the geographic connection, to
the fact that the age brackets indicated for John's 3 shown male children (no names are
given) are consistent with the approximate known and/or calculated dates of birth for the
Coudy brothers mentioned in Horace's letter (Mathew, Oliver, and James).
This census record also shows 2 females living in the household, one in the same
age bracket as John and thus presumably his wife, and one around the same age as the 3 brothers
and presumably a daughter. There are also records which show that a
John Coudy paid taxes in Bethel, Bedford, Co. PA in 1820 and in January of
1821.
On page 665 of a book titled the "History
of Bedford, Somerset, and Fulton Counties, Pennsylvania" (published in 1884) text reads "The
first school in Buck Valley was taught by Mrs. Isabella Cowdey, of Ireland,
about 1824." Buck Valley, PA appears on current maps and is only about 6
miles from Hancock, MD. It is highly likely that Isabella was John Coudy's
wife. (Cowdey and Cowdy are common misspellings of Coudy in census records
and elsewhere.)
A record shows that a John Cowdy,
now believed to be the eldest of 4 sons of John and Isabella, married Catharine
Bradley in 1819 in Allegany County, Maryland which starts only
about 7 miles west of Hancock. Almost nothing is known about John
(Jr.) but an 1830 census records places him, Catharine, and several children
living several hundred miles away from Hancock in western Pennsylvania.
(Catharine would later move with some her children to Butler/Hillsboro, IL in the
mid-to-late 1850's where her husband's brothers Mathew and Oliver had come in the mid
1830's.)
Text on page 1253 of a book titled "History of Western Maryland" Vol. II by
J. Thomas Scharf (originally published in 1882) reads in a partial list of
those buried in early Hancock cemeteries:
"John Coudy, native of Ireland, died
Sept. 8, 1823 in his 48th year."
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St. Thomas Episcopal Church Cemetery,
Hancock, MD - 2008 photo
(See additional photos and information in the
section below regarding James Coudy.)
(N 39° 42.036’, W 078° 10.645’ ±35'
- WGS84 Datum) |
John Coudy (Sr.) is buried along with his
son James and members of James' family in a Coudy
plot in the historic St. Thomas Episcopal Church cemetery in Hancock, Maryland.
John's 1823 death is consistent with
Horace's letter regarding Mathew which reads
"His parents died and he was raised by relatives......".
Mathew would have been about 10 years old when his father died. But
Horace was apparently not correct when he referred to "parents" as plural.
An 1830 census record for Washington County MD (where Hancock is located) shows
a "Widow Coudy" family unit of 3 with sexes and age brackets consistent with
Isabella, son Mathew, and the un-named daughter all of who were shown in John Coudy's 1820
census record (the other children being old enough to have left home by 1830).
Isabella is not buried with her
husband John in Hancock. An 1840 census record for Montgomery County,
Illinois (where Butler and Hillsboro are located) show a woman of Isabella's age
living with her son Oliver and his wife suggesting that Isabella likely
followed him and son Mathew west sometime in the later 1830's. A
findagrave.com record shows she died on August 16, 1846 and is buried in the
Bluff Cemetery (Methodist Cemetery) in Hillsboro.
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Isabella Coudy's gravestone in the Bluff Cemetery (Methodist
Cemetery) in Hillsboro, IL. The readable upper part of
the inscription reads:
"In
memory of Isabelle Coudy who departed this life August
16, 1846"
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I've been unable to uncover any ship
records which would confirm that the John Coudy family emigrated from Ireland in 1817
or might indicate whether the family traveled with other relatives.
Regarding Horace's mention that his
ancestors were French Huguenots who spent "a short time" in Ireland before
coming to the U.S.: A quick look at French Huguenot history suggests
that the Huguenots spent centuries of hardship in France and that the most
active period of the "Huguenot Wars" took place throughout the 1500's which
ended roughly 200 years before the John Coudy family emigrated to the U.S. in 1817.
It's therefore hard to know exactly when the Coudy family came to Ireland from
France. Horace's letter suggests that it may have been not long before the
family's emigration to the U.S. in which case the family would have been
primarily French in origin. On the other hand, history books suggest
the possibility that the Coudys came to Ireland generations before they emigrated
to the U.S. in which case the family would have been likely much more
genetically Irish. There is evidence that there have been, and
currently are, Coudys in France which confirms the possible French origin of the
name. I came upon a book titled "The Huguenot Wars" edited/written by
French writer Julien Coudy (and translated into English in 1969 by Julie Kernan).
I obtained a copy but it unfortunately doesn't mention how, if at all, the
editor/author was connected to the Huguenots.
Mathew and
Oliver Coudy in Illinois
(Starting about 1835)
About Hillsboro
Academy
Horace's choice of words in the above
letter regarding the
construction of "Wyman Academy" in Hillsboro, IL ("they decided to go for the
contract", "they built the academy") combined with the arduous trip to get there
and the fact that Mathew is later shown in census records as a "builder"
suggests that the Coudy brothers (Mathew and Oliver) were more likely involved
in the project as perhaps general contractors of some sort than as laborers or
craftsman such as carpenters.
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Hillsboro Academy was still standing in 1938 when Mathew's son
Horace visited. In 2005 when I was in Hillsboro the
building had
long since been torn down. |
In December of 2004 I visited Hillsboro
and obtained historical information on the town as related to my ancestors
there. I've learned that the building which Horace refers to as
"Wyman Academy" was in fact known as Hillsboro Academy which for a time was
headed by a fellow named Edward Wyman. Hillsboro Academy was for many
years a focus of great pride for the citizens of Hillsboro as it apparently
provided some of the first and best advanced education in early Illinois and
attracted students from all over Illinois and neighboring states.
The construction of Hillsboro Academy took
place in 1835 and 1836.
This places the timing of Mathew and Oliver Coudy's arrival there to about 1835.
Mathew would have arrived in Hillsboro when he was about 22 years old and
he is assumed to have spent about 13 years in or around Hillsboro before marrying
Mary Seward in her home village of Butler (2 miles from Hillsboro) in 1848.
I would assume that Mathew and Oliver (who is believed to have been older than
Mathew) were involved in other building projects in the area during this period.
In his letter Horace indicates that the
Hillsboro Academy building was still standing when he visited Hillsboro in 1938
(it would have been over 100 years old at the time). When I visited
Hillsboro in December of 2004 the building was no longer around and I could
find no information on when it was torn down.
Land Records
Government land grant records show that
both Mathew and Oliver owned land in the Butler/Hillsboro area of Illinois
(Butler being a small village a few miles from Hillsboro). Oliver
obtained two 40 acre tracts on January 1, 1840 and Mathew obtained one 40 acre
tract on March 3, 1843. It's possible that both brothers had
additional land holdings for which records are not available. It is
not known what each did with their land though they presumably lived on it and
perhaps farmed it.
More About
Mathew's Brother Oliver
An 1840 Montgomery Co., IL census record
indicates that Oliver was born between 1810 and 1820. The 1820 census
record for his father John indicates that Oliver was born between 1804 and 1810.
It is thus likely that Oliver was born abt. 1810 and therefore in Ireland prior
to his family's 1817 arrival in the U.S.
Horace's letter indicates that Oliver
married "a Hillsboro girl" and that when Oliver passed away his widow married
"Judge Rice". Census and other records show that Oliver's wife's
maiden name was Susan R. Allen, that they were married on May 09, 1839 in
Montgomery County, IL (probably in Hillsboro), and that they had one child, Isabella
Olive Coudy,
who was born in 1847. Susan married Judge Edward Young Rice in 1849, suggesting that Oliver passed away prior to
this date. Oliver's daughter Isabella Coudy would thus have been
raised from about the age of about 2 by her mother and step-father Judge Rice.
Isabella would marry Festus Cone
Bolton in 1865 and have two children, Mary Cone Bolton born in 1867 and
Edward Rice Bolton born in 1877. (Susan and Edward Rice are buried in
the Oak Grove Cemetery, Hillsboro, IL.)
A internet genealogy message board
indicates that Oliver Coudy signed marriage licenses as the Montgomery County,
Ill clerk (or perhaps the Hillsboro city clerk) in 1840. Local
records show that he was the postmaster of Hillsboro from 1845 till perhaps
1847.
The "Illinois Fact Book and Historical Almanac" at the
Illinois State Library shows that Oliver Coudy served one term in the Illinois Senate
(15th General Assembly) from 1846-1848. He represented Bond, Christian,
and Montgomery Counties (Montgomery being the location of Butler and Hillsboro.)
A publication titled "Illinois Election Returns 1818-1848" shows that Oliver ran
in the 1846 election as a Democrat and that his opponent was a Whig candidate.
Oliver won by 21 votes out of the 1995 votes cast in the 3 counties and
thus squeaked by with 50.5% of the vote.
Oliver's service in the state legislature tends to corroborate Horace's mention that Oliver died "in the coach on his
way from Springfield where he was a legislator from his district" and his dates
of service suggest that he probably passed away in 1848 at around the age of 38. I would expect
Oliver to be buried in or near Hillsboro, most probably in the Oak Grove Cemetery, but I've been unable to find his grave site.
Oliver's 1840 Montgomery county census record show an unidentified older woman
in the household of an age that could be his mother Isabella (who thus may have
followed Oliver and Mathew to Illinois in the 1930's). It is thus possible
that she is also buried in the area, perhaps with Oliver. (I note that the
Oak Grove Cemetery contains some gravestones in it's older section which are no
longer readable and which could therefore possibly be Oliver's and/or his
mother's. Oak Grove
Cemetery interment
records unfortunately don't go back this far.)
More About
Mathew's Brother James (in Hancock, Maryland)
According to James' naturalization record
he was born in County Down, Ireland. Both Horace's letter and James'
naturalization record agree that James Coudy was born abt. 1804 (though his
gravestone reads 1803). On the
other hand, multiple Maryland census records and his obituary suggest that he was
born between 1806 and 1808. As mentioned above, James arrived in the
U.S. from Ireland in 1817 (when he would have been about 13 years old assuming
an 1804 birth). He
was naturalized and became a U.S. citizen on Nov. 27, 1827.
As implied in Horace's letter, all records
confirm that James
stayed in Hancock, MD where his father John had brought the family by
about 1820. I've uncovered some information about his life there and he
apparently became a well respected and prominent citizen.
An 1850 census record for
Washington County, MD shows that James was married to a woman named Mahala and
that the couple had an 18 year old daughter named Catherine. Then on May
23, 1864 James married Susan Stilwell (b. 1829) who was
around 25 years younger than he (depending on his assumed age)
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I suspect that his first wife must have passed away and that daughter
Catherine would have probably married and left home by this time. From several sources
including census records I've determined
that James and Susan had 5 children: Isabel (Zella/Belle) E. Coudy (b. 1866),
Edward M. Coudy (b. 1867), Mary Caroline Coudy (b. 1868, died in
infancy), Ellen M. Coudy (b. 1870), and Mary Agnes Coudy (b. 1871).
Numerous mentions of the Coudy name
appeared in
"The Herald and Torch Light" newspaper (Hagerstown, MD, not far from Hancock)
between the 1860's and the 1890's. They provide some information about the family in Hancock.
Most of the mentions are short and somewhat non-consequential but the most
telling is James' obituary which appeared in the January 3, 1884 edition and
reads:
"Death of James Coudy - James Coudy, Esq.,
one among the most prominent and respected citizens of Hancock, died
at his residence on Sunday morning, the 30th [of Dec., 1883], in the 77the year
of his age. During his life he was an active Democratic politician
in this county, by whom he was elected several terms a member of the
Legislature, a member of the Board of County Commissioners, and of
the Board of Directors of the C. & O. Canal. In the days of staging
on the National Pike, he was an associate of the firm of Mealey,
Coudy & Co., proprietors of the stage line through Hagerstown. At
his death he occupied the position of collector of tolls of the
Chesapeake and Ohio Canal at Hancock. He was beloved by a large
circle of acquaintances, who mourn his death." |
In 2005 I asked Jim Kuttler (a Seward
family researcher) if he could find anything regarding James. He came up
with the following in the Maryland State Archives:
"Delegates to the Maryland House from
Washington Co.: James Coudy, 1860, 1861 (April Special Session, June
Special Session, July Special Session [dns]), 1868 (D)." |
Jim then indicated:
"The reason for the special sessions was
that Maryland was deciding whether or not to secede from the Union.
The Civil War started in April 1861. Maryland was a border state
that did stay in the Union, but had many, many Southern
sympathizers, particularly from the part of Maryland around Hancock.
A little geography: the northern border of Maryland is the
Mason-Dixon Line, the southern border is the Potomac River. At
Hancock, which is on the Potomac, Maryland is at its narrowest, with
Pennsylvania and Virginia only about 3 miles apart there.
Since James did not serve [dns] in the July session, and in 1868 is
listed as a Democrat (D), it is quite possible that he was a
Southern sympathizer. [This is just speculation on my part.]"
"In the 1880 census he is a 'collector on canal', which would be
taking tolls on the C & O canal. The C & O [for Chesapeake and Ohio]
canal runs parallel to the Potomac on its northern (Maryland) side.
It still exists today, although not used as a canal, and is a very
long, thin park, used for hiking and cycling." |
Jim Kuttler's suspicion that James Coudy
was possibly a Southern sympathizer is probably supported by records which show
that James was a slave owner at the time of the 1850 and 1860 censuses. In
1860 he owned 1 slave in Hancock (as apparently did many of his neighbors).
Local Hancock, MD census records (obtained
from the Hancock Historical Society) show that in 1870, the first census after
the Civil War, James and his family had 2 black employees apparently living with
them. By the 1880 local Hancock census there are no employees shown.
After James passed away at the very end of
1883, ongoing newspaper mentions suggest that Susan and the Coudy children
continued to live in Hancock into at least the early to mid 1890's.
Susan was the "executrix" of her husband's estate and short newspaper
mentions suggest that it took till 1895 (over 11 years) to finally settle the
estate though there is no indication that it involved anything out of the
ordinary. During this period Susan sold several pieces of real-estate
including a "house and lot in Hancock" in 1890 and "the Coudy homestead, in
Hancock" in 1893. In 1889 and 1890 Ella Coudy, presumably James' daughter
Isabel,
is shown as a local school teacher.
By 1900 however, Susan and her family had
moved to Baltimore, MD as indicated by a Baltimore census record which shows
Susan living there with all of her children. Belle (Isabel E.)
is single at age 34, Edward M. is single at age 33, Mary A. is single at age 28,
and Ellen M. is married to Walter L. Alexander (b. June 1869) who is living with
his wife at the Coudy home. (Mary Agnes Coudy would marry Robert S.
Moffitt around 1902 and the couple would have one child that I'm aware of, Ellen
Marie Moffitt. Ellen Moffitt is the only grandchild of James and Susan Coudy that my
research has found.)
A newspaper obituary for Susan Coudy
indicates that she passed away in Baltimore in late February of 1905 and was to
be buried in Hancock, MD.
Hancock,
Maryland has an interesting history. Click here for a short
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Above: Both sides
of the Coudy gravestone in
the St. Thomas Episcopal Church cemetery, Hancock Maryland.
John Coudy was James' father and Susan Stillwell James' wife. All
the other inscriptions are for James and Susan's
children except for Walter Alexander who was daughter Ellen Mar
Coudy's husband.
(Photos by the author in October, 2008)
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39° 42.036’, W 078° 10.645’ ± 35' - WGS84 Datum) |
Another Hancock Coudy Relative?
Hancock cemetery records obtained from the
local historical society for the name Coudy (and likely derived after-the-fact
from tombstone inscriptions and not interment records) show a record that reads:
"Memory of Hatie adopted daughter of Samuel ? Coudy who died Sept. 4, 1856 age
23 years". The record suggests that the monument is in the Public Cemetery
in town as opposed to the St. Thomas church cemetery which contains all the
other Coudys (in the photos above). This suggests the possibility that
there was also a Samuel Coudy in the area at some point in time and this is the
only area Coudy mention that I have been unable to place on the family tree.
If it is assumed that Samuel adopted Hatie when she was born about 1833 and that
he was about 25 to 35 years old at the time of the adoption, Samuel would have
been born between about 1798 and 1808, an approximate age range which would
could be consistent with him being another sibling of John, Mathew, Oliver, and
James Coudy. This is of course pure speculation and, this record being the
only evidence currently available, I have not placed Samuel on my Coudy family
tree.
Mathew Coudy in St.
Louis
I can only wonder if the loss of his brother
Oliver in Hillsboro, Illinois may have played a
roll in Mathew's decision to move to St. Louis soon after his marriage in 1848.
Mathew and Mary Coudy would spend the rest of their lives in St. Louis where
all of their 8 children were born (the first 3 would die in infancy).
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Mathew's handwriting and signature from Bellefontaine Cemetery Records.
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1860 St. Louis census records indicate
that Mathew Coudy's occupation was "builder" and the 1880 St. Louis census shows him as a
"retired builder". A newspaper story following
Mathew's death described him as "an old and esteemed resident of the
northern part of the city" and that he "was quite a well-known contractor and
carpenter". His son Horace indicates in his above quoted letter
that Mathew retired when Horace was 12 years old. A little quick math
indicates that Mathew therefore retired in about 1874 at the age of about 61.
Mathew would have then spent 9 or 10 years in retirement before he passed away
December 31, 1883 at the age of 70.
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From
the New York Times - January 7, 1884.
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The only mention of Mathew's death that
could be found in the St. Louis newspapers was a death notice which appeared in
the St. Louis Post Dispatch on January 1, 1884 and read simply: "Coudy - On
December 31, at 1 o'clock, at his late residence, Mathew Coudy, aged 70 years.
Due notice of funeral will be given."
However, an article was recently
discovered on the internet which appeared in the New York Times on January 7,
1884 and which had apparently been picked up by them from a St. Louis paper
(who's back issues are currently unavailable) as a human interest story.
The article (at left) tells the same story about Mathew and his brother James
passing away on the same day that Mathew's son Horace told in his 1946 letter to
his granddaughter. (This article indicates that Mathew was born in
Maryland but evidence elsewhere more convincingly suggests that he was born in
Ireland 4 years before coming to the Untied States.)
Mary Caroline Seward-Coudy
Among Horace Coudy's surviving artifacts (which were
kept by my mother) is a small bound 32 page booklet
written and published by Horace's brother, Upton Seward Coudy to honor the
passing of their mother shortly after her death in October of 1923. The
booklet provides a wealth of information regarding Mary Seward-Coudy and reads
in part:
"Mary Caroline Seward was born in Blooming
Grove, now Butler, Illinois, January 17, 1827. Her father was Israel
Seward, a direct descendent of Col. John Seward of Revolutionary
fame, and William H. Seward, Secretary of State under President
Lincoln. [Authors note: W. H. Seward was a first cousin
of Israel Seward.]
Her mother was Margaret Slayback, of the Kentucky family of that
name and closely related to Alonzo Slayback, a prominent St. Louis
lawyer of the early days.
Mrs. Coudy was one of a family of two girls and eight boys, her only
sister, Mrs. Cornelia McGowan of Pana, Illinois, and her brother,
Henry Seward, of Los Angeles, Calif.; Clarence Seward, of Hoopston ,
Ill.; Frank Seward, of Denver, Colo.; Charles Seward, of Farmington,
Minn.; William Seward, of Butler, Ill.; Edward Seward, of St. Louis,
MO.; James Seward, of Butler, Ill.; George Seward, of Butler, Ill.
Mrs. Coudy was the last of the family to pass to the great beyond.
Mary Caroline Seward was married in Butler, Illinois, to Matthew
Coudy on September 25th, 1848, and came to St. Louis in a schooner
wagon, crossing the Mississippi River at St. Louis.
Their first home was on Seventeenth Street, near Washington Avenue. Later they built a home on the block of ground bounded by Sixteenth
Street, Wash and Franklin Avenue, and here their family was born and
reared. The family consisted of three girls and 4 boys; Lillian
(deceased); Agnes (Mrs. A.H. Eilers); Margaret (Mrs. Ben P. Corneli),
deceased; James, deceased; Horace, Upton, and Lee.
Mrs. Coudy had eleven grandchildren: Roy and Ralph Eilers; Clifford
Corneli; Elmer, Norman, Harold, and Hazel (Mrs. Earl Hulburd) Coudy;
Upton Seward, Jr., Culver, and Virgil Coudy; Mildred Coudy (Mrs.
Eugene Coleman).
There are nine great-grandchildren; Agnes, Roy, Fern, and Ray Eilers;
Florence Eilers; Harriet Nan, and Betty Seward Hulburd; Dorothy Jane
Coudy; Edith Coleman.
The writer can recall many an evening spent in the old home, around
the open fire place, listening to Mother entertain all the children
with weird stories of the Indians, who were camped within a block of
home. The Indians were quite friendly in those days, making
neighborly calls to sample Mother's cooking and, finding sample
satisfactory, taking a goodly portion back to the wigwam. The
old-fashioned peacock feather duster was their special delight, and
many a brave buck would plant himself on the kitchen floor and,
moving his fingers scissor-like, demand that Mother dismantle the
same feather duster and braid the feather in his long black, shining
hair. At times their visits were occasioned by a desire to trade -
their bear and venison meals were enjoyed by all; but one time, a
proposal to swap Indian blankets for a white girl papoose for a time
occasioned some uneasiness, but no attempt was made to steal the
child.
Among the many pleasant memories of her happy childhood, were the
frequent visits of Abraham Lincoln to her father's home at Butler,
Illinois; how, as a little girl, she would run down the hill to meet
father's friend. Mr. Lincoln would reach out his long
arms and lift her to a seat beside him in his old well-known buggy,
with holes cut in the dashboard to allow for his unusual height.
Mrs. Coudy for years made her home with her son, Upton, and passed
away in his home, as the golden sun was setting on the evening of
October 26, 1923.
Her birthdays and wedding anniversaries were always an occasion for
the gathering of her family and friends. She had a
remarkable memory, entertaining at all times with selection from her
storehouse of poems. The following is a copy of an invitation sent
out on her ninetieth birthday, January 17th 1917:
I am glad to meet my friends so dear,
From near and far away;
you must not think I am growing old -
I am Ninety years old today.
Perhaps you think that I am old,
Tho my hair is streaked with grey,
But I am as young as any of you-
I am Ninety years old today.
I have two daughters near me,
My three sons close at hand.
I have all the comforts one should ask;
Now don't you think that's grand?
So please come round and seem me oft;
Please do not stay away,
I love to see your smiling face -
And I am Ninety years old today.
And so each day of the fleeting years,
Please think of me. I say,
And let all pleasures banish tears,
'Cause - I am Ninety years old today.
I was raised way off in Illinois,
Away from care and harm;
I have always looked at the bright side,
Both on and off the farm.
I came here away in the Forties,
When the City was a Town,
When Grand Avenue was a wilderness,
With her fields of golden brown.
I want to live just ten years more -
To reach my hundred mark.
You know I am a young girl yet
That lovers like to spark.
And may the Lord His measure give
To each of you, I pray;
And may you always happy be,
'Cause I am Ninety years old today.
I still can sing and recite for you,
Entertain you in my way;
So don't forget me in the days to come -
I am NINETY years old today."
Many called during the day and evening.
The funeral services of Mrs. Mary C. Coudy were conducted at Third
Baptist Church, Sunday, October 28, 1923 at 3:00 p.m. Dr. Samuel E.
Ewing officiated.
Dr. Ewing spoke as follows:
Mrs. Mary C. Coudy was born near Butler (Montgomery County),
Illinois, January 17th 1827. She lived to the unusual age of 96
years, 9 months and 9 days. She was one of ten children; all the
other members of her family have entered into rest. We have here
this afternoon four children (one daughter and three sons), eleven
grandchildren, and nine great-grandchildren. Four generations mourn
the departure of the good woman. Mrs. Coudy was converted at the
early age of twelve and united with the Presbyterian Church.
She,
with the other members of her family, came to St. Louis in 1848.
In
1851 Mrs. Coudy and her husband, Matthew Coudy, were baptized into
the membership of the Third Baptist Church by the pastor, Rev. Jos.
Walker. At this time the Third Church was worshipping in the hall at
the corner of Thirteenth and Market streets. There was no
baptistery
in the building and it was necessary for the services to be held at
the Second Baptist Church. At that time there were thirty-five
members of the Third Church. We have time to mention only a few
outstanding characteristics of the noble woman. The age to which our
sister Coudy was spared was quite remarkable. Her's was not a
strong, robust body, but wonderfully gifted with endurance, and
during all these decades she was exceedingly active in service to
her family and community. Mrs. Coudy was especially
noteworthy in the realm of the mental. God endowed her
with wonderful gifts of mind, and it was her happy privilege to
cultivate those gifts and store her heart and mind with the richest
treasures that could be found. From earliest years of
her life she loved the Scriptures. It would be difficult
to estimate how much of the Old Book, "The Bible," she had stored in
her heart. She put it there for use. God
gave her a good memory, and she did not select a verse here and
there, but memorized the Scriptures by paragraphs and chapters.
At any time during the day or night she could recite them most
fluently. Just a little while before she passed away she
recited the entire 23rd Psalm.
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Final Resting
Place
Mathew and Mary Coudy are buried in the
Bellefontaine Cemetery, St. Louis, Missouri in a plot purchased by "Mathew and
Charles Coudy" in, or prior to, 1858. Also buried in this plot
are many of Mathew and Mary's descendents including their son Horace R. Coudy
and several grandchildren, as well as Charles Coudy and some of his descendents (see
below).
The "Lillie & Jimmie" recognized on the
grave marker (see photo below) are children of Mathew and Mary who died in
infancy and were interred in or prior to 1855 and subsequently moved to the
Coudy plot in 1860. Mathew and Mary had
another daughter who died in infancy, Cornelia (1856-1857), who is buried in the
Oak Grove Cemetery in Hillsboro, IL right behind the graves of Mary Coudy's
parents Israel and Margaret Seward. Why Cornelia is buried with her
grandparents and not in St. Louis with her younger and older siblings is a
mystery. Her Hillsboro gravestone appears to read "Cornelia - daughter of
Matthew and Mary Coudy - born in St. Louis, Mo. May 27 1856 - Died April
25, 1857". Perhaps Cornelia died while visiting the Sewards and it was
simply more convenient to bury her there.
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Bellefontaine Cemetery,
St. Louis Missouri
(December 2004 Photo by Ted Hine)
(GPS N 38°
41.784’, W 090° 13.787’ ± 10 feet, WGS84 Datum) |
Oak Grove Cemetery, Hillsboro, Illinois
(December 2004 Photo by Ted Hine)
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In December of 2004 I visited the
Bellefontaine Cemetery in St. Louis, photographed the Coudy plot there (plot 727,
block 117) , and obtained interment records for it. I noted that in spite
of 22 interments having taken place on the plot between about 1858 and 1949,
only one grave marker is present: that of Mathew and Mary Coudy. I find
this a
little strange but have come up with no explanation for it. For more information on this Coudy plot and to view the
interment records, follow this link:
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The Eilers Plot in the Bellefontaine Cemetery, St. Louis is located
in a different part of the cemetery than the Coudy plot.
Mathew and Mary Coudy's daughter Agnes Mary married August H. Eilers
in 1874. This plot contains the
graves of August H. Eilers (1844-1932), wife Agnes M. Coudy-Eilers
(1850-1933), son Roy M. Eilers (1877-1949),
son's wife Fern Eilers (1892-1981), and grandson Roy A. Eilers
(1915-1932).
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Who was Charles
Coudy
When I wrote the first edition of this biography in
2005 I was confronted with a couple of mysteries.
First, 1860 St. Louis census records show
that Mathew and Mary Coudy lived right next door to Charles and Jane Coudy
(along with their respective families). In addition, Bellefontaine
Cemetery records show that the Coudy plot was purchased jointly by "Mathew
and Charles Coudy", presumably sometime in or before 1858 when the first interment
took place on the plot. Charles Coudy was clearly related to Mathew Coudy but I had
been unable to uncover any records which indicated how. Charles was
apparently not Mathew's brother so I suspected he may have been Mathew's
first cousin.
Second, I'd found a Coudy gravestone
marking the final resting place of Catharina Coudy and Alexander Coudy near my Seward ancestor's plot in the Oak
Grove Cemetery in Hillsboro, IL. I couldn't connect either to the family tree but
suspected that they were likely connected due to the rarity of the name and the
fact that brothers Mathew and Oliver Coudy first settled in the Butler/Hillsboro
area of Illinois.
In early 2007 I ran into 2 descendents of
Charles Coudy (my 4th cousins twice removed) on the Internet and, with their considerable help, put together a
pretty complete family tree of Charles Coudy's descendents (along with his
mother and siblings) which included the formerly unconnected Coudys in
Hillsboro, IL. In addition, we were able to make the connection between
Mathew and Charles Coudy. Charles turned out to be Mathew's nephew, the
son of Mathew's previously unknown brother John Coudy.
For a more complete discussion of what I've
learned and information on Charles and his descendents click on the following link:
Miscellaneous
Information
Coudy Descendents List
Click below for a list of known Coudy
descendents as I show them as of April, 2012.
Census and Other
Records
A number of the original census and other
records I've accumulated regarding the Coudys are included on this CD/DVD but
you will need to use your own photo viewing software to access and properly size
them. Point your photo viewing software at the following folder in the disk
file directory structure of this biographical web site:
........\HulburdsCoudys\HoraceHarrietCoudy\CoudyCensusAndOtherRecords
The contents of the records found in this
folder are generally described in the file names (which are stored mostly in
date order).
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